John A. Engel, Jr.
John A. Engel Jr., known as Jack to his friends and Poppy Jack to his grandchildren, a retired advertising executive, sailor, devoted husband, father and grandfather, died Monday at Waveny Care Center in New Canaan after suffering a stroke in September.
Born and raised in Stamford, Jack was the son of Rose and John A. Engel, the first principal of Rippowam High School and the first national wrestling champion for Lehigh University. Jack was the grandson of Lillian and Charles Engel, the publisher of the Stamford Advocate.
Always a “Mad Man,” Jack began his advertising career at Wahlstrom & Co, worked at Ogilvy & Mather and retired after 25 productive years at Young & Rubicam of 285 Madison Avenue.
Jack was an avid sailor, a superb golfer and trumpet player. He started sailing as a young boy off the beach in Stamford’s Shippan Point in the 50’s, took Susan sailing with him in high school and continued until he had visited every island in the Caribbean, his favorite being tiny Bequia in the Grenadines. He attended Operation Sail in New York in 1976 and witnessed many America’s Cup races in Newport and later New Zealand. With his family he restored an antique schooner, the Gretchen, which they sailed out of Rowayton to Groton Long Point, Nantucket, Mystic, and Newport.
He was an active member of St. Aloysius parish, a regular at the 7 a.m. daily Mass, a Eucharistic Minister and part of the Emmaus Community. Jack was a member of the Senior Men’s Club of New Canaan, the Ischoda Yacht Club and Wilson Point Yacht Club. A long-suffering Red Sox fan, he was at Fenway when they lost in 1967 and 1975 and was finally redeemed in 2004.
Jack will be remembered for his meatballs. He was masterful in the kitchen. Jack pored over the New York Times recipe section on his daily commute and used it for inspiration to make wonderfully creative meals. Self taught, his enthusiasm and passion translated into great culinary talent.
He was generous, kind, funny and remarkably intelligent. He was home every night for his family. His great taste and attention to detail was apparent in so many renovation projects including the Flower House in East Hampton, the Finch and Weed Houses in New Canaan, 48 Church Street in Newport, the antique schooner, and finally the L’Hammock island house.
Jack is survived by his wife of 50 years, Susan C. Engel, a local realtor, and two children, John A. Engel III and Gretchen (Mrs. Keith) Gertsen, both of New Canaan. Jack is also survived by eight grandchildren in New Canaan: Madeleine, Lillian, Charlotte, Casey, Carolyn Rose, Mark, Max, and Lars.
He is survived by his sister Kathleen Engel of Bloomfield, N.J., and his brother Richard Engel and wife Christine of Sherman, Conn. Jack was predeceased by his sister, Rosemary Murphy of Malvern, Pa.
On Monday, Nov. 23, a Memorial Mass will be held 11 a.m. at St. Aloysius Roman Catholic Church in New Canaan. Funeral arrangements are being made through the Hoyt Funeral Home.
Interment will be private. Contributions in the name of the deceased can be sent to the New Canaan Getabout, 198 Elm Street, New Canaan.
The family expresses their appreciation to Waveny Care Center and to the nursing staff of Masonicare .
For online condolences and directions please visit hoytfuneralhome.com.
— The Family
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